Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt
Yesterday was a big day for me. I met face to face with someone who has been a very difficult computer client. This situation has had me knots for months and yesterday I got closure. It’s liberating now but at the time of our meeting it was confronting and scary. As I was going through the moment when I realized it was happening, that we were meeting I thought about my blog that day “action creates change” And here I was right in the middle of a big change. I was not running. You see I have a really hard time with confrontation. I don’t want anyone to ever view me poorly or doubt my integrity to the extent that I freeze and get inactive in my life. Yes it’s sad and the more I can talk about it and uncover it, the more I can have the courage stand strong in the face of any obstacle. I am learning. We are all learning how to be better. If it was easy we wouldn’t get the Aha moments.
We all have different triggers and different reasons why we live in fear. I want to break free and I want to support you to do the same. Do you give your power away? Do you let someone make you feel inferior? The key word is let because we teach people how to treat us.
If you were not afraid and didn’t live in fear, what is possible for your life? What are you wishing for in your life? What do you say you would like to be doing?
Like I said yesterday, action will create the changes you are looking for in your life. And please don’t confuse action with being busy. Action is deliberate; where busy can be a whole lot a nothing to fool yourself that you are making progress. Action takes planning and forethought to create something.
Today take stock on the relationships that make you feel inferior and causing you to hold back in life. One day at a time, one step at a time you can walk through your fears and create the life that you dream of…Together we are going to do this.
Today I am grateful for the support to walk through my fear yesterday.
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