assumptions

Don't Make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.” Don Miguel Ruiz

I took some unintentional time off from writing. So for any of you that assumed that something was wrong ;) no worries everything is good. I’m feeling excellent, well actually marvelous. I have a lot going on and I am excited about all of it. Yesterday I got to surf for the first time this year and it was everything and more than I remembered. When I’m out there on the water I feel more alive than ever. I see everything so clearly. I feel so much gratitude for my life and what it isand what it is becoming.

I am always honored that anyone reads this blog. I have so much to share and sometimes I have to figure out what that is before I can write it down. Today I want to share about the sweetness of life. It is very easy to make assumptions about everything and everyone around you but when you can truly embrace the idea of a new day and see someone with new eyes, you get the opportunity to begin again. Life is so beautiful when you have the freedom to live it. We are quick to assume what’s going to happen or how someone is going to be but it’s all based on our past experiences. We want to hold people to who they were yesterday. What if we can be here- now and make our decisions based on our current wants or dislikes? What if you can choose what you want because you choose it? Doesn’t that sound freeing? Freedom is where we want to get to. Freedom in this moment gives you the power to create the life that you really want.

Today, I am grateful for my loving and supportive friends and family.